Manchester, NJ, is yet another neighborhood experiencing tension over the growth of its Jewish community. A mikvah is being built to serve 500 families, and it has drawn fierce opposition. Local bloggers and activists are rallying neighbors to fight against it, while Facebook has once again erupted with venomous attacks against the Jews of Lakewood and surrounding areas.
Some argue that nothing can be done. It’s antisemitism. Eisav sonei l’Yaakov. It’s inevitable. The cultures are too different, and peace will never be possible. All we can do is fight it out in court.
But Rav Mattisyahu Salomon zt”l taught a very different perspective. The Torah way of life is meant to attract. It naturally elevates and inspires. Its very purpose is Kiddush Sheim Shamayim. And if, instead, it generates hatred and opposition, then we must pause and ask: are we truly representing Torah fully with middos and derech eretz? The name of Hashem should become beloved through us.
“Eisav sonei l’Yaakov” is not a decree of inevitability. It depends on us. As the Netziv (Sefer Sheair Yisroel) explains, when we fail to represent Hashem properly, He sends hatred as a wake-up call. But when we do serve as true representatives, there can be love and admiration.
Shragie Bloch, who is spearheading the mikvah project, shared how one neighbor living right near the new mikvah has been surprisingly supportive and advocating for the mikvah. This man was a mechanic in Lakewood for 17 years, and had countless interactions with Jews—and all his experiences were positive!
Imagine if there were hundreds of such advocates in the growing neighborhoods, each with warm stories of respectful, positive encounters—on the street, at work, or even just on the road. The Kiddush Sheim Shamayim would be immeasurable.
So the question is: can each of us make a difference? Could we change the tide? Could our explosive growth be an explosive growth in Kiddush Hashem?
The Yamim Noraim are a time when we focus intensely on our ultimate mission of Kiddush Hashem, a theme woven throughout our tefillos. This is the time to look inward and ask: are my actions aligned with this mission? Is our community’s growth in Torah, leading to a parallel growth in Kiddush Hashem in the world?
To help inspire this reflection, the Living Kiddush Hashem Foundation has produced a powerful, free film with three remarkable stories—including the shocking story of the Manchester mikvah with many more astounding details.
Rabbi Uri Deutsch and Rabbi Joey Haber share fundamental yesodos on the mitzvah of Kiddush Hashem, alongside Avi Schnall, who offers perspective on the current friction in New Jersey.
This film is truly life-changing. It offers a whole new perspective on our glorious mission of Kiddush Hashem.
Watch it at LivingKiddushHashem.org beginning Motzei Shabbos Selichos, September 13.
{Matzav.com}