The Belzer Rebbe convened senior rabbinic leaders and members of the Bnos Melachim committee of Belz to strengthen and expand the organization’s efforts to promote tznius within the Belz community. During the gathering, the Rebbe reflected on the founding of the Beis Malka educational network, emphasized the spiritual purpose behind its establishment, and declared that strengthening tznius among women would serve as a source of salvation for the entire generation.
The meeting, held at the Rebbe’s residence, brought together committee members and dayanim as part of an initiative to broaden and reinforce the activities of the Bnos Melachim committee. The organization was established to support families in upholding the community’s standards of tznius and to deepen women’s connection to the values and traditions of the Belz chassidus.
Addressing the gathering in the presence of the Rebbe, Rav Yehoshua Fink, a member of the committee and dayan who also serves as the spiritual director of Beis Malka, explained that although the committee is expanding, every mother within the Belz community is, in essence, a member of the initiative.
He stressed that the committee’s purpose is not to govern the public but to serve it.
“The committee,” Rav Fink said, “is not here to stand ‘above’ the ציבור, but rather its sole desire is to serve as a shaliach tzibbur, assisting the holy ציבור that wishes to follow the path of Torah and chassidus, the way of our holy fathers and rabbeim.”
Another committee member, Rav Elimelech Gross, spoke about the unique place women have always occupied within Belz.
“In Belz, righteous women have always held a special and honored place,” he said. He noted that the Belzer Rebbes would not enter the beis medrash without a women’s section, emphasizing that righteous women possess the ability to pierce the heavens with their tears, as “the gates of tears are never closed.” He added that this reflects the esteem in which women who faithfully uphold the standards of tznius have always been held, and recalled that the Rebbe has consistently spoken about the importance of the subject during the annual Stei’ige Torah gathering, presenting it as a fundamental pillar of authentic Jewish life.
Rav Aharon Mordechai Rokeach, who heads the committee, then addressed the gathering, praising its members for faithfully carrying out the Rebbe’s guidance.
“It is our sacred and pleasant obligation not to surrender to the temptations of the street,” he said. “‘Zich nisht lozen,’ but rather to continue walking in the path of Belz as it has been throughout the generations. Belz has always served as a model for the broader world of chassidus in matters of ruchniyus, and certainly in this area as well it must remain the standard-bearer.”
The Belzer Rebbe then delivered the keynote address, recounting at length the founding of the Beis Malka school system and the tremendous financial burden and other challenges that accompanied its creation.
“Many years ago, when Beis Malka was established, it involved tremendous financial burdens and many other challenges,” the Rebbe recalled. “People asked me why such an institution was necessary. I answered that the day would come when graduates of girls’ schools would be asked why they dressed a certain way, and their answer would be that they dressed that way simply because that was the custom at their particular school. I said that cannot be. There must be a defined path. Just as there is a proper mode of dress for men, there must likewise be a proper mode of dress for women, with clear boundaries. Beis Malka was not established so that girls could learn mathematics or other academic subjects. It was founded so that they would know how a Jewish daughter is meant to dress.”
The Rebbe also recalled a story about his grandfather, the Maharid of Belz.
“I have related in the past that when one of the young women in my grandfather the Maharid’s family was preparing to travel to another city, he first asked to inspect her suitcase to ensure that every article of clothing she was taking complied with the standards of tznius.”
The Rebbe stressed that every standard accepted within Belz is rooted in the long-established traditions of the chassidus.
“We must understand that everything we undertake to observe is based on the customs practiced in Belz. There must be care taken regarding the dress of both men and women. Everything must be conducted according to Torah and chassidus. We have gathered here today to address this matter. We established Beis Malka so that we would not need to compromise in these areas, as circumstances required during the war years.”
He continued by emphasizing that responsibility begins at home and extends to those in positions of influence.
“Every individual must ensure that these standards are upheld within his own home. Likewise, those who have influence over the ציבור have an obligation to speak about these matters. New fashions and new ‘musters’ are constantly emerging. Those appointed to oversee this issue have the responsibility to ensure that standards of women’s tznius are not weakened beyond what is absolutely necessary.”
Turning to the future of the community, the Rebbe stressed that preserving the next generation depends on parents serving as living examples.
“If we wish to raise chassidishe doros, we must first ensure that parents conduct themselves properly. That is why we have assembled today—to establish clear standards and restore matters to their proper place. We must build a generation of descendants who are deeply attached to the love and fear of Hashem, and therefore parents must lead by example and carefully uphold all the standards of tznius that have always been observed in Belz.”
The Rebbe concluded with a strong appeal to preserve firm boundaries despite changing fashions and social trends.
“If we indeed strengthen ourselves, remain steadfast and resolute, and refuse to yield, recognizing that there are boundaries which must never be crossed, we will merit the continued preservation of Judaism according to our sacred tradition. But if people begin searching for leniencies and creating new standards, no one can know how far that may lead. If we remain faithful to what has been observed until now, and everyone knows that in Belz these standards are carefully maintained, that strengthening will be the salvation of the entire generation.
“There must be a geder that is never crossed. New styles and new ideas appear constantly, and no one knows what the next trend will be. Therefore, we must establish a geder that serves as a firm boundary which is never breached. If we do so, we will succeed in continuing forward.”
Following the Rebbe’s address, members of the committee approached to receive a specially blessed coin from the Rebbe as a token of encouragement for their continued work.
{Matzav.com}