Mother of Oct. 7 Victim Confronts Ex-IDF Intel Chief: “My Daughter Was Buried Because of You!”
Shelly Meshel-Yogev, the mother of Libby Cohen Meguri, who was murdered by Hamas terrorists during the October 7, 2023 massacre, confronted Aharon Haliva, the former head of the IDF Intelligence Directorate, during an unexpected encounter in a park on Friday, accusing him of failing to personally face her family in the aftermath of the disaster.
Cohen Meguri was murdered while trying to flee the Supernova music festival massacre. During the emotional confrontation, Meshel-Yogev told Haliva that despite the fact that he lives close to the family and knows Libby’s father, he had never reached out to them or come to see them.
“You live a kilometer from our house, and you never came. You know her father, and you didn’t come. Don’t lie,” Meshel-Yogev said in a video of the encounter posted to her Instagram account.
Meshel-Yogev continued, directly blaming Haliva for the intelligence failures preceding the Hamas invasion and demanding that he acknowledge the magnitude of what happened.
“Where are you? Where were you? My daughter was buried because of you! You should feel humiliated and carry responsibility, and not breathe and say, ‘I want to come to you, I want to cry with you, because I am also suffering.’ You should say you are suffering like me! You don’t understand this?” she told Haliva.
She contrasted Haliva’s conduct with that of Herzi Halevi, the former IDF chief of staff, who she said had personally contacted the family.
“You didn’t bother to talk to us once – unlike [former IDF Chief of Staff] Herzi Halevi, who called and said I want to come. Where are you? Where have you been?”
Video from the encounter shows Haliva standing and listening as Meshel-Yogev speaks to him. He does not answer her during the recorded exchange.
Haliva stepped down as head of the IDF Intelligence Directorate in 2024, announcing his resignation in April, approximately six months after the October 7 massacre. In his resignation letter, Haliva publicly accepted responsibility for the Intelligence Directorate’s failure to provide the warning expected of it before the Hamas attack. His departure officially took effect in August 2024.
“The Intelligence Department under my command did not fulfill the mission we were entrusted with. I carry that dark day with me since then, day by day, night by night. I will forever carry with me the tremendous pain of the war,” he wrote.
Haliva returned to the subject publicly in August 2025, when Channel 12 aired recordings in which he discussed at length the failures surrounding October 7 and his view of the responsibility borne by Israel’s military and political leadership.
“I took responsibility. They won’t forgive me for October 7th – I failed,” he said.
Haliva argued in the recordings that the catastrophe resulted not simply from an individual mistake, but from deeply rooted assumptions that had taken hold throughout Israel’s security establishment.
“It’s not arrogance, it’s a whole culture. We got used to thinking we knew everything – IDF Intelligence, Shin Bet, Mossad – and the enemy was deterred. This wasn’t an accident that you just change four tires and move on. It requires deconstruction and rebuilding.”
In those recordings, Haliva also addressed Halevi’s conduct before the attack, contending that the prevailing assumptions about Hamas were shared broadly among senior security officials.
“Herzi was not negligent – he was paranoid. He didn’t wake me up at night, but even if he did, I would have gone back to sleep. That was the mindset we all had.”
Haliva also offered a harsh assessment of Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, describing him as an “attentive, situation-reading man – but a coward. He failed the test of results.”
Discussing his own responsibility as the officer who headed IDF Intelligence at the time of the massacre, Haliva said that he had not sought to conceal his role in the failures and had acknowledged it openly before other officers.
“I’m accountable for the investigations at IDF Intelligence, to dozens of officers, in bright sunlight. Nothing was hidden. This happened on my watch. I despise anyone who says, ‘That wouldn’t have happened to me.’ I was the CEO of a monster – and I’m responsible. Period.”
