Wife of Imprisoned Yungerman Speaks Out: “He Told Me He Has Never Been Treated With Such Disrespect”
The wife of a yungerman who was arrested after reporting to an IDF induction office to resolve his draft status is speaking publicly for the first time, describing what she says was an unexpected arrest, humiliating treatment in military prison, and the emotional toll the ordeal has taken on their family.
Yael Ben David, whose husband Nehorai Ben David is a yungerman from Bat Yam and the father of three young children, said in an interview that the family never imagined he would be arrested when he reported to the draft office. According to her, he went there solely to regularize his status, only to be taken into custody upon arrival.
“They set a trap for him,” she said. “They told him to come and resolve his status… and without any prior warning, they simply arrested him.”
According to Yael, her husband was handcuffed immediately after his arrest and informed that he would serve a 20-day sentence in military prison.
“They put handcuffs on him and told him, ‘You now have 20 days in prison to think about which unit you’re going to enlist in,'” she recounted.
She explained that her husband had received repeated notices and letters instructing him to resolve his status and ultimately decided to report out of concern that he might otherwise be arrested unexpectedly during his daily routine.
Yael also described what she said were the difficult first days following his incarceration, claiming he was not permitted to contact her after arriving at the military prison.
“When he first entered the prison, they didn’t even allow him to speak with me,” she said.
Only after approximately 24 hours was he able to make a brief telephone call, during which he described the conditions of his confinement. According to Yael, he was initially placed in a separate housing unit before later being transferred to the regular prison wing after a formal complaint was filed.
She also leveled serious allegations regarding the treatment her husband has received while in custody.
“He told me they treat chareidim there with real contempt,” she said.
According to Yael, her husband told her he was forced to stand for extended periods without explanation, was prevented from participating in tefillah b’tzibbur, and even had the bookmarks removed from the seforim he brought with him.
“He told me, ‘I’ve never been treated with such disrespect in my life,'” she said, adding that he believes his appearance as a ben Torah contributed to the way he was treated.
She said the family’s hardship extends well beyond the prison conditions themselves. Her husband, she explained, is permitted only a three-minute phone call each day.
“We don’t even have enough time to say hello and goodbye before they disconnect the call,” she said.
According to Yael, the family has retained legal counsel and is working to ensure that his rights are protected, including seeking greater opportunities for communication between the couple.
Nehorai Ben David remains in military prison as his family awaits further developments. During the interview, it was noted that any official response from the relevant authorities regarding the allegations would be published in full if and when it is received. In the meantime, the family says it hopes that by sharing its story publicly, greater attention will be drawn to what it describes as the conditions of confinement and treatment of chareidi detainees.
{Matzav.com}
