Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein Offers NIS 1,000 Reward to Anyone Who Makes a Shidduch
An emotional scene unfolded this week at a kollel in Cholon, when Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein publicly pledged to personally pay 1,000 shekels to any kollel member who succeeds in finding a shidduch for an older single girl in need of a shidduch.
The incident took place Tuesday, the fast of Asarah B’Teves, at Kollel Beis Dovid in Cholon, following a special tefillah held by Rav Zilberstein on behalf of the girl, who is the daughter of one of the kollel’s avreichim. Speaking briefly before Minchah to dozens of talmidim, Rav Zilberstein made an impassioned appeal that surprised those present.
“Dear and beloved friends,” Rav Zilberstein said, according to a recording aired on the ‘Siach Yitzchak’ hotline. “I have a request. We have a very dear brother in the kollel, one of the most precious among us. He is suffering greatly. He has a daughter—certainly as precious as he is—and there are no shidduchim. I think today we should ask everyone to say three chapters of Tehillim.”
Rav Zilberstein then added an extraordinary commitment. “I want to say something else,” he continued. “If one of us finds a shidduch, I will give him one thousand shekels. First, we will daven for him—he is our brother, and the pain is very great. The daughter is getting older every day, and he is a great talmid chacham. So I am saying: If one of us finds a shidduch, in addition to the shadchanus fee he will receive from the families, he will personally receive one thousand shekels from me.”
Quoting the words of Tehillim, Rav Zilberstein urged the avreichim to internalize the pain of the situation. “Let us now say the chapter, ‘Esa einai el heharim, mei’ayin yavo ezri.’ This is our help. This is not hefker here. ‘From where will my help come?’ It hurts us. I repeat again: Whoever hears my words now and finds a shidduch—aside from the shadchanus—I will, with Hashem’s help, give another one thousand shekels. After the tefillah we will say Tehillim, and bli neder I will give the money to the one who merits this great mitzvah of finding her a chosson. May Hakadosh Baruch Hu help us quickly.”
In recent years, Rav Zilberstein has repeatedly spoken about the growing crisis of older singles. At a Chanukah gathering at the same kollel, he addressed the issue directly. “Es achai anochi mevakesh,” he said then. “There are avreichim whose sons or daughters are older and waiting for a zivug. Sadly, this is a tzarah of all of Klal Yisroel—one of the most difficult problems of our time. Beyond tefillah for one another, and the principle that one who davens for his friend is answered first, there must also be real, practical effort.”
He continued at that event by urging every avreich to actively think of shidduchim for others, describing the effort as an extraordinary act of chessed and a partnership in building a bayis b’Yisroel, bringing light and joy to families who wait and yearn for that moment.
{Matzav.com}