“Davening Partners”: Moving Story Emerges at Rechavia Shul
A powerful and emotional story emerging from the Gra Shul in Yerushalayim Rechavia neighborhood has touched thousands after revealing an extraordinary act of quiet kindness between two elderly mispallelim — men who, it turns out, were complete strangers.
Communications adviser Yareach Toker recently shared the account after witnessing what he initially believed was a remarkable example of filial devotion during daily Shacharis. Toker, who attends the shul each day for Shacharis, noticed two older men — one about 90 years old and the other in his 70s — davening side by side.
“I see them davening every morning in such a moving way,” Toker recounted.
What he observed appeared to be an outstanding fulfillment of honoring one’s father. The younger man carefully guided the older mispallel through every stage of the davening — pointing to the place in the siddur, indicating where the minyan was up to, and turning the pages for him.
“The younger one shows the older one where to daven, where they’re up to, where the cantor is holding, points it out in the siddur, turns the page for him. I saw it once, twice, three times, and I said, ‘Wow, this is amazing! What a merit he has in honoring his father,’” Toker said in the video he later published.
But the story took a dramatic turn when Toker approached the devoted mispallel to commend him.
“I went up to him and said: ‘What a merit you have in honoring your father, fortunate are you.’ So he says to me: ‘My father is no longer here, unfortunately.’ I said to him: ‘What? So who is this elderly Jew?’ He says to me: ‘I don’t know him,’” Toker recalled.
Stunned, Toker pressed further. “What?! Every morning, I’ve seen you for weeks davening with him every single day — who is he?”
The man, Dr. Yehuda Eliezeri, an octogenarian resident of Yerushalayim, then explained how it all began.
“I’ve been davening in this shul for three years. When I arrived, I saw this elderly man sitting and davening, and he didn’t really hear the chazzan well, he didn’t understand where we were holding, so I simply showed him in the siddur.”
The elderly mispallel turned out to be Reb Asher Kestenbaum, a 97-year-old man who, without ever asking, gained a devoted companion.
For three years — through rain and summer heat alike — the two have davened together daily for an entire hour, word by word. Each morning, Dr. Eliezeri sits beside him, pointing in the siddur and turning pages. During the silent Amidah, the younger man stands while the older remains seated, guiding him through the repetition as well.
“Every day he sits next to him, points in the siddur, for an hour turns pages with him. During the Amidah he stands, and the older Jew sits, and he shows him, turns the pages during the repetition, he shows him. It’s simply moving because he doesn’t know him. He says, ‘I know who the person is, I know his name, but he’s not my father — and I simply have the privilege of praying with him every day,’” Toker said.
According to Toker, Dr. Eliezeri views the arrangement as a personal brocha. He even told Toker that they have effectively become davening partners, and that helping Reb Asher actually strengthens his own concentration and connection during tefillah.
“The Jew is already 97, may he live long, and the Jew next to him, in his 80s, is performing kindness for another elderly Jew. Mi ke’amcha Yisroel!” Toker concluded.
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{Matzav.com}