Dear Matzav Inbox,
Can we talk about the latest epidemic spreading quietly through the frum world?
No, not a new fad diet or a WhatsApp group.
I’m talking about grown men—yes, frum men, in their, fifties, sixties and seventies—dyeing their hair jet black as if they’re fooling us.
Do they honestly think we don’t notice? When a man’s face, posture, and wardrobe all scream “retirement age” but his hair is darker than his grandson’s, who exactly does he think he’s fooling? It doesn’t make him look younger. It makes him look ridiculous. You can practically hear the hair dye shouting, “I’m insecure!” from across the shul.
Let’s be real: no one is mistaking you for being 40 again. The only thing your “Mens Hair Now” routine does is make you look like a wax figure who escaped from Madame Tussauds. And while we’re not even touching the halachic side of it (that’s another conversation entirely), can we at least acknowledge that it’s just plain unbecoming?
There used to be a time when gray hair was considered a badge of honor. It meant wisdom, experience, dignity. Now, we have people running to the drugstore to erase every sign of life lived. Why? Are we so terrified of looking our age that we’d rather look absurd than authentic?
Gentlemen, it’s time to grow up—literally. Stop pretending, stop painting your heads, and stop believing that vanity will somehow make you more appealing. Embrace your years, your silver strands, your earned respect. A man with white hair has lived. A man who dyes it black just looks like he’s still trying to live in denial.
There’s nothing wrong with being forty, fifty, sixty or seventy or more. There is something wrong with being that age and acting like a teenager who just discovered Just for Men. So please, put down the dye, step away from the mirror, and let Klal Yisroel see that growing older with grace is still something to be proud of.
Signed,
A Yid Who Can Spot a Bottle of Hair Dye from a Mile Away
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It’s midnight in the holy city of Yerushalayim, and a group of exalted and illustrious mekubalim stream in, one by one, into the Beis Medrash overlooking the Makom HaMikdash—the site of our destroyed Beis HaMikdash—where they will spend the night immersed in holiness.
Each and every one of these carefully selected Yidden has already spent years in the study of the Zohar and the writings of the Arizal and his talmidim. Their faces radiate holiness and holy purpose, and they exude humility and piety.
They are the Avreichim of Kollel Kabbalah B’Chatzos—a project of Torah-24 which is founded and led by HaGaon Rav Avrohom Eisen, shlit”a, Pozna Rov, a confidant of gedolei Yisroel.
The night begins at midnight, when the avreichim tearfully and mournfully recite Tikkun Chatzos, along with other tefillos, lamenting what has been lost, and storming the Heavens for its restoration.
Following this, they will delve into the deepest secrets of the hidden Torah—until the sun comes up over Yerushalayim. For the entire night, hour after hour, they chase sleep away, and remain immersed into the Kabbalah that has been handed down to us by the most exalted tzaddikim that Klal Yisroel possessed.
Gedolei Yisroel who have become aware of the Kollel Kabbalah B’Chatzos phenomenon have expressed awe and admiration for these illustrious men.
Hagaon HaMekubal Rav Abish Zenwirth, who has attested that he knows these men up close, has attested that “they are humble tzaddikim who prepare themselves for their holy nights by immersing in the mikveh, and study the secrets of Torah all night amid ahavas Hashem and deep fear of Heaven.”
In his letter of endorsement for Kollel Kabbalah B’Chatzos, Rav Zenwirth writes: “Fortunate are all those who take part in this great and holy endeavor. They will surely merit all the Heavenly blessings and illuminations. They will be pursued by goodness and kindness all their lives, and in their merit we will soon hear the great blast of the shofar of Mashiach. Amen.”
Partner in this incredible and holy endeavor today, and be joined with these holy mekubalim of Yerushalayim who will daven for you and your family to indeed merit the many Heavenly blessings that come to those who spend their nights immersed in Torah.
Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez avoided giving a straight answer when pressed on whether Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer should relinquish his leadership role after multiple Democratic senators sided with Republicans on a vote to reopen the government.
When asked directly on Wednesday if Schumer ought to step down as the party’s leader in the Senate, Ocasio-Cortez delivered a lengthy reply that skirted the issue entirely. “I think what’s important is that we understand that…a leader is a reflection of the party, and Senate Democrats have selected their leadership to represent them,” she said, according to the Washington Examiner’s Rachel Schilke.
The New York lawmaker went on to broaden her remarks, saying, “And so the question needs to be bigger than just one person. We have several Senate primaries this cycle. I know I’m being asked about New York. That is years from now. …We actually do have Senate elections this year, and my hope is that people across this country actually participate in their primary elections in selecting their leadership.”
Her comments came as Schumer faced a wave of internal backlash after eight Democratic senators broke ranks and joined Republicans in supporting a procedural measure on Sunday night that allowed a continuing resolution to advance — effectively paving the way to end the government shutdown.
Those who crossed the aisle included Sens. Maggie Hassan and Jeanne Shaheen of New Hampshire, Dick Durbin of Illinois, Jacky Rosen of Nevada, and Tim Kaine of Virginia. They were joined by Catherine Cortez Masto of New Mexico, Angus King of Maine, and John Fetterman of Pennsylvania, all of whom previously voted to move the House-approved funding measure forward.
By siding with Republicans, the eight Democrats abandoned efforts to secure a guaranteed continuation of enhanced Obamacare premium subsidies first enacted during the pandemic. In exchange, they accepted a verbal commitment from Senate Republican leader John Thune to hold a vote on the subsidies “no later than the second week in December.”
In an interview with Breitbart News prior to the shutdown on October 1, Senate Republican Conference Chair Tom Cotton accused Schumer of precipitating the crisis out of fear that Ocasio-Cortez might challenge him for his seat. “Chuck Schumer is shutting down the government because he’s terrified of a primary from AOC. His actions are disgraceful,” Cotton said.
After Sunday’s vote, Cotton renewed his criticism, blasting Schumer as “a disgrace” who put “his deranged hatred for President Trump ahead of serving the public.”
The internal Democratic rift over the spending deal has reignited tensions within the party, with progressives and moderates once again clashing over leadership and strategy — while Ocasio-Cortez continues to keep her distance from directly confronting Schumer’s standing at the top.
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Israeli officials confirmed Wednesday that Hamas possesses complete information about all four hostages whose bodies are still in Gaza. The report, released by Kan 11 News, cites senior sources familiar with the situation who said the terror group maintains detailed knowledge about each of the deceased.
According to those sources, the intelligence extends beyond Hamas itself, encompassing data about captives held by the Islamic Jihad group as well. This revelation underscores the complexity of the hostage situation and the overlapping control among militant factions inside Gaza.
The officials underscored that Israel’s stance remains firm: no half measures or partial deals will be accepted regarding the recovery of the fallen. “They must all be brought back – down to the very last one,” the sources declared, calling for increased diplomatic and security pressure on Hamas to achieve that outcome.
At the same time, efforts are reportedly being made to locate and retrieve the bodies through coordination involving Hamas representatives and the International Red Cross. These steps are said to form part of the broader framework addressing both captives and missing individuals from the war.
Separately, Asharq Al-Awsat reported earlier in the day that among the four, one of the deceased hostages is currently held by Hamas, another by Islamic Jihad, and two more are believed to be located in Israeli-controlled territory east of the Yellow Line.
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Hamas and Islamic Jihad announced Thursday afternoon that they will release the body of a deceased hostage later in the evening, saying the handover is set for 8:00 PM.
According to the joint statement, the remains were recovered in the Morag region, located just north of Khan Yunis in southern Gaza.
At present, the terrorist groups in Gaza are holding the bodies of four Israeli hostages — Dror Or, Meni Godard, Ran Gvili, and Sudthisak Rinthalak — whose families have been waiting in anguish for their return.
Officials cited by Kan 11 News on Wednesday confirmed that Hamas possesses complete information concerning all four of the deceased hostages whose bodies remain in Gaza.
The same sources added that these details are not limited to those in Hamas custody but also cover hostages held by Islamic Jihad.
Government officials stressed that no deal should move forward without the recovery of every last body, calling for intensified diplomatic and military pressure to ensure their return. “They must all be brought back – down to the very last one.”
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Secretary of State Marco Rubio expressed concern on Wednesday that escalating unrest in the West Bank could endanger the fragile truce in Gaza. “Certainly there’s some concern about events in the West Bank spilling over and creating an effect that could undermine what we’re doing in Gaza,” Rubio told reporters. He added that while he hopes the tensions will not disrupt the ceasefire, he does not expect them to do so either.
Rubio commended Israeli leaders who have spoken out against the violence, noting the statements made by President Isaac Herzog and senior IDF officials condemning the latest attacks. Their remarks followed a massive assault by dozens of Israelis who torched Palestinian farmland and factories between Nablus and Tulkarem.
In contrast, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and his coalition have remained silent, prompting accusations that the government is quietly tolerating the attacks. The violence has become an almost daily occurrence, raising alarm among international observers.
Rubio’s measured comments marked one of the few times the Trump administration has addressed settler violence directly. Although he stopped short of outright condemnation, his acknowledgment signaled growing unease within Washington over the situation.
When Trump first took office, he reversed a policy imposed a year earlier by then-president Joe Biden, signing an executive order to end sanctions targeting extremist settlers and related organizations. Since then, settler raids — including attacks on Christian villages — have persisted.
In July, U.S. Ambassador to Israel Mike Huckabee, an ordained pastor, visited one of the affected villages and urged Israeli authorities to prosecute those responsible. “Those targeting the village must be brought to justice,” he said. However, despite his call, not a single indictment has been filed.
Accountability within Israel’s law enforcement remains limited. The commander of the police division overseeing the West Bank is under investigation for allegedly ignoring settler crimes to gain favor with National Security Minister Itamar Ben Gvir. Despite the inquiry, the officer has been allowed to resume his duties.
Authorities detained four suspects linked to Tuesday’s large-scale arson attack, but by the following day, three had already been released. The IDF and police have traded accusations over who bears responsibility for failing to stop the violence, while some security sources quietly blame the government itself, citing ties between extremist settlers and certain ministers.
The Trump administration, meanwhile, has moved to reduce international scrutiny of the issue. A G7 statement released Wednesday offered only a vague pledge to “continue to maintain attention on the situation in the West Bank,” a softer tone than that taken under Biden, when a similar communiqué condemned settlement expansion and urged restraint from all sides.
As Rubio’s press briefing ended, new reports emerged of another assault — this one in the village of Sinjil, north of Ramallah. Armed settlers allegedly fired at a civilian guard, injuring a young man in the foot. The Sinjil Municipality blamed the attack on “settlers who are supported by the occupation army,” describing it as part of an ongoing wave of aggression.
Meanwhile, a Channel 12 investigation revealed that police probes into Jewish nationalist violence have sharply declined under Ben Gvir’s leadership. The number of investigations has dropped by 73% since 2023, even as settler attacks have hit record highs. Only 60 cases have been opened this year, compared to 150 in 2024 and 235 the previous year — a striking disparity as the violence continues unchecked.
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