Satmar Rebbe Sounds Alarm Over Growing Generational Divide in Tznius: “The Gap Between Grandmothers and Granddaughters Is Terrifying”
Thousands of Satmar chassidim gathered this week in Williamsburg for a major emergency assembly led by Rav Aharon Teitelbaum of Satmar, who delivered an impassioned address warning of what he described as a troubling decline in standards of kedusha and tznius and a widening cultural gap between generations.
The gathering, titled “Shemirah L’Doros,” was held at Eden Palace and attended by thousands of chassidim, along with the community’s rabbanim and dayanim. Organizers said the event was convened to strengthen religious standards and reinforce long-standing traditions within Satmar homes and institutions.
Before the arrival of the Rebbe, the keynote address was delivered by his eldest son, Rav Menachem Mendel Teitelbaum, the Satmar Av Beis Din of Williamsburg. He spoke at length about issues of tznius, emphasizing the importance of proper hair covering for married women, concerns surrounding contemporary wigs, the dangers of technology, and other areas he said require immediate attention and stronger communal safeguards.
When the Rebbe entered the hall, he began his remarks with the pasuk, “V’hayah b’achalchem milechem ha’aretz tarimu terumah laHashem.” Drawing on Midrashic teachings, he explained that “lechem” alludes to a wife, while “terumah” signifies separation. He said the message is that when building a Jewish home, one must consciously separate oneself and one’s family from prevailing societal influences and worldly trends.
The Rebbe then turned to what he described as a growing problem in contemporary Jewish communities.
“We live in Williamsburg alongside various groups and communities that are meticulous regarding different stringencies and customs, yet in matters of tznius they are not careful at all,” he said. “Our holy fathers and rabbeim were extraordinarily strict regarding kedusha and tznius, viewing them as among the most serious matters. Chas v’shalom for any of us to treat these issues lightly. We have a clear mesorah regarding how to conduct ourselves, how to dress, and how to educate our children, and it must not be altered to accommodate the spirit of the times or changing fashions.”
During his address, the Rebbe related a story about the Divrei Chaim of Sanz. According to the account, a prominent Torah leader once asked the Sanzer Rav for the halachic source of a particular practice and questioned where it was written. The Divrei Chaim famously responded, “It is written within me, and I am the Torah.”
The Rebbe became emotional as he applied that lesson to the teachings of his uncle, the Satmar Rav, author of Vayoel Moshe.
“These matters are written and firmly established in the teachings of our uncle, the Vayoel Moshe, and he is the Torah,” the Rebbe declared. “No one should, chas v’shalom, dismiss them with questions and confusions of ‘Where is it written?’”
In one of the most striking moments of the evening, the Rebbe lamented what he sees as a dramatic erosion of traditional standards from one generation to the next.
“The difference in dress between the grandmother and the children and grandchildren is terrible and frightening,” he said. “There is an alarming yeridas hadoros. We must live according to the concept of ‘tarimu terumah’—a language of elevation. A chassidishe Yid must conduct himself with dignity and upliftedness, not be pulled along by neighbors and friends, but stand proudly with the traditions that have been entrusted to us.”
The Rebbe also identified what he believes is one of the root causes of the phenomenon: the growing practice of sending young men to study in yeshivos outside the Satmar community.
“A large part of this weakening comes from sending boys to study in outside yeshivos,” he said. “There they are exposed to foreign outlooks and become cooled off in matters of Chassidus and yiras Shamayim. Later on, they see nothing wrong with their wives becoming lenient regarding standards of dress and tznius.”
The Rebbe expressed strong support for the remarks delivered earlier by his son, describing them as “words that come from the heart” and therefore destined to enter the hearts and minds of those who heard them.
Addressing the audience directly, he urged every participant to view the message as a personal responsibility.
“These words are directed to you personally,” he said. “Every individual must ensure that within his own home, among his children and grandchildren, proper standards are maintained and that as many protective boundaries and safeguards as possible are established.”
Toward the conclusion of the event, the Rebbe praised students of the Satmar Bais Rochel schools who, in recent weeks, voluntarily cut their long hair as an expression of commitment to the community’s standards. He commended them for what he described as a courageous step taken in the interest of preserving the sanctity of the Jewish home.
The gathering concluded with the Rebbe offering brachos to the assembled chassidim that they succeed in upholding the community’s sacred standards and traditions.
He ended by invoking the well-known teaching: “In the merit of righteous women our ancestors were redeemed, and through them may we soon merit redemption in our days, Amen.”
{Matzav.com}