Former Hostage Eli Sharabi: “I Don’t Have the Privilege to Stay in Bed and Cry”
Former captive Eli Sharabi spoke candidly in an emotional interview aired Monday night on Kol Chai Radio’s flagship program, reflecting on the return of the final hostage, Ran Gvili Hy”d, his own recovery after captivity, and his call for unity within Israeli society.
In a conversation with host Avi Mimran, Sharabi described the moment as a painful yet meaningful turning point for the Gvili family. “Everything you said about Ran, that he’s a hero of Israel — it’s simply incredible,” Sharabi said. “This really is a nation of heroes. Like Ran, many others went out that day, took initiative, and came to rescue the residents of the Gaza border communities.” He added that for the family, it is “a very complex moment. It’s not a happy moment, but perhaps a moment of closure, of farewell, and the beginning of a healing process.”
Mimran asked Sharabi about his personal path toward recovery following prolonged captivity and devastating personal loss. Sharabi responded with striking honesty. “For me, this is who I am. I always knew how to look for solutions and not focus on problems,” he said. “After 500 days of people fighting for me — my family, my friends, the people of Israel who prayed — I don’t have the privilege to stay in bed and cry all day. I will get up and rebuild. But that’s what suits me, and it’s forbidden to judge others by my standards.”
Sharabi also spoke about the faith that sustained him during captivity deep underground. “Faith is a support for everything,” he said. “From the very first moment in captivity, I rediscovered faith. Fifty meters underground, it only grew stronger. There were crossroads of life and death over 491 days, and each time I came out alive. The light and love I receive from my family and from the people — I have no words to thank them.”
Turning to the broader national conversation, Sharabi addressed what he described as a painful gap between the inner strength shown by former captives and their families and the tone of Israel’s public and political discourse. “I agree that there is a gap,” he said, “but I don’t agree that it can’t be narrowed. We have a duty — each person in their own sphere — to talk about what unites us and not what divides us. Even when we argue, it can be done in a calm and respectful way. That responsibility rests first and foremost with elected officials.”
Mimran noted that since his release, Sharabi has chosen to speak publicly in Israel and abroad, becoming one of the most prominent voices among former hostages. Asked about his central message, Sharabi replied: “We have no other country. That’s the message I convey to the world. We have a wonderful nation, warm and deeply committed to its state, and we must do everything to continue living here. Only if we are united can we continue to exist in the State of Israel. There is no alternative.”
Addressing whether social division played a role in the events of October 7, Sharabi said, “I don’t know how to judge whether there is a direct connection, but it’s clear it didn’t do us any good. We need to be careful of people with interests who fuel the rift. Disagreements are healthy in a democracy — but not hatred. Hatred is a terrible word.”
The interview concluded with a personal reflection on faith. “My faith is very strong,” Sharabi said. “I’m not a religious person, and everyone finds faith and strength in their own way. That needs to be respected.” He closed with a message to the nation: “I wish the people of Israel to set out on a new path and to heal from this terrible trauma.”
{Matzav.com}
