Matzav Inbox: Stop Dyeing and Start Aging Gracefully
Dear Matzav Inbox,
Can we talk about the latest epidemic spreading quietly through the frum world?
No, not a new fad diet or a WhatsApp group.
I’m talking about grown men—yes, frum men, in their, fifties, sixties and seventies—dyeing their hair jet black as if they’re fooling us.
Do they honestly think we don’t notice? When a man’s face, posture, and wardrobe all scream “retirement age” but his hair is darker than his grandson’s, who exactly does he think he’s fooling? It doesn’t make him look younger. It makes him look ridiculous. You can practically hear the hair dye shouting, “I’m insecure!” from across the shul.
Let’s be real: no one is mistaking you for being 40 again. The only thing your “Mens Hair Now” routine does is make you look like a wax figure who escaped from Madame Tussauds. And while we’re not even touching the halachic side of it (that’s another conversation entirely), can we at least acknowledge that it’s just plain unbecoming?
There used to be a time when gray hair was considered a badge of honor. It meant wisdom, experience, dignity. Now, we have people running to the drugstore to erase every sign of life lived. Why? Are we so terrified of looking our age that we’d rather look absurd than authentic?
Gentlemen, it’s time to grow up—literally. Stop pretending, stop painting your heads, and stop believing that vanity will somehow make you more appealing. Embrace your years, your silver strands, your earned respect. A man with white hair has lived. A man who dyes it black just looks like he’s still trying to live in denial.
There’s nothing wrong with being forty, fifty, sixty or seventy or more. There is something wrong with being that age and acting like a teenager who just discovered Just for Men. So please, put down the dye, step away from the mirror, and let Klal Yisroel see that growing older with grace is still something to be proud of.
Signed,
A Yid Who Can Spot a Bottle of Hair Dye from a Mile Away
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