Secular Israel Singer: “I’m Very Strict About Saying…Shehakol Nihiyeh Bidvaro”
Popular secular Israeli singer Miri Mesika opened up this week about her personal connection to faith and Judaism, saying that although she considers herself “very secular,” she is careful to recite the berachah of “Shehakol nihiyeh bidvaro” before taking the stage — a habit she maintains despite teasing from her friends.
Speaking to Shachar Tangy at the Tanya Study Center, Mesika said, “I’m very secular, but before I go on stage, I say ‘Shehakol nihiyeh bidvaro,’ because everything I have in life belongs to Hashem.”
She explained that her religious friends sometimes laugh when she mentions it. “When I say that berachah, what I mean is that I’m nothing — even my voice and everything I have, it’s not mine, it’s Yours. After that, I go on stage without ego. Ironically, it’s that place of not believing that brought me to a much stronger kind of belief.”
Several years ago, Mesika performed at a special evening of inspiration and song marking the yahrtzeit of Rochel Imeinu at Yerushalayim’s Sultan’s Pool. She shared the stage with Rebbetzin Yemima Mizrachi and fellow singers. The event drew thousands of women from across the religious spectrum.
Following the concert, Margalit Deri — daughter of Shas chairman Aryeh Deri — sent an emotional message to Mesika expressing how deeply the performance had moved her.
“Hi Miri, you don’t know me,” Deri wrote. “My name is Margalit Deri, I’m Aryeh Deri’s daughter — I’m sure you’ve heard of him. I have to tell you from my heart, I was at your concert last night, and the whole time I had chills. It was such a powerful, emotional evening — uniting and connecting. I feel like I’ve been your friend for years.”
She described the atmosphere of unity among women of all backgrounds: “We sat next to completely secular women and mainstream chareidi women, and everyone was together in such love. Next to me sat a totally secular woman, and I was so moved to put my hand on her shoulder and bless her, ‘May Hashem bless you and keep you…’ It was so special!”
Deri praised the collaboration between Mesika and Rebbetzin Yemima Mizrachi, calling it “perfect” and saying it gave chareidi women the confidence to attend. “When you and Eti sang ‘Tzama lecha nafshi,’ you broke us to pieces,” she wrote. “I think Hashem turned off Rebbetzin Yemima’s microphone at the end because He didn’t need her to speak — the whole evening itself was holy. Just seeing all my daughters together like that — there was no need for anything else.”
She concluded, “Thank you. Please keep doing more of this. I work for Kesher Yehudi, an organization that pairs secular and chareidi women to study together once a week. Seeing that kind of spontaneous connection last night made me so happy. You really moved me — thank you, dear.”
Mesika later responded warmly to Deri’s note: “Thank you, dear Margalit. Above all the wonderful women who filled the Sultan’s Pool, above all the different principles and beliefs, hovered the greatest principle of all: ‘Ve’ahavta l’rei’acha kamocha — love your fellow as yourself.’ Thank you for letting me be part of that immense display of love — a sisterhood of women like I’ve never experienced before. Shehechiyanu v’kiyimanu v’higianu lazman hazeh.”
{Matzav.com}
