Chacham Nissim Ben Shimon: ‘The Churban Was Caused by Baseless Hatred—We Must Not Repeat That Mistake Today’
As Bein HaMetzarim begins amid ongoing tensions surrounding the military draft of bnei yeshivah, Chacham Nissim Ben Shimon is urging the Torah community to remain steadfast in Torah learning while avoiding the trap of sinas chinam, warning that division among Jews must not be allowed to deepen during this sensitive period.
In a special interview with Kol Chai Radio’s “Tzav Ma’atzar” program, conducted by Gudi Silman, the veteran Bnei Brak gaon addressed the draft crisis, the status of bnei yeshivah, and the need to strengthen the Torah world.
Asked whether he could recall another period when the chareidi community faced circumstances similar to those of today, Chacham Ben Shimon replied that he could not.
“Honestly, I don’t remember a situation like this,” he said. “There has never been a time when people who sit and learn Torah were taken and treated this way. It’s difficult even to speak about such a situation.”
He noted that the current developments are especially painful during Bein HaMetzarim, when Jews reflect on the causes of the destruction of the Bais HaMikdash.
“We are in the days when we speak about sinas chinam, and דווקא now we must be careful not to add more hatred.”
The gaon also offered words of encouragement to yeshivah bochurim and avreichim who are anxious about the current situation.
“There is no need to be afraid,” he said. “We believe that HaKadosh Baruch Hu guides the world. We must continue learning Torah and never diminish its value. On the contrary, the more we are afflicted, the more we must strengthen ourselves.”
He added that faith in hashgachah pratis should give Jews confidence even during difficult times.
“In the end, everything comes from HaKadosh Baruch Hu, and one who learns Torah merits siyata diShmaya.”
When asked how the chareidi public should respond to the strong emotions surrounding the draft controversy, Chacham Ben Shimon stressed that disagreements must never become personal hostility.
Even in the midst of profound disputes, he said, there is no place for inflammatory rhetoric or angry confrontation.
“If you want to influence people, you don’t do it through anger and shouting,” he said. “You have to speak pleasantly, to bring people close rather than push them away. When you speak with respect and appreciation, people listen.”
He also used the interview to call for greater internal chizuk within the Torah community, particularly with regard to maintaining the sanctity of batei knesses.
He urged worshippers to refrain from engaging in idle conversation during tefillah.
“Talking in shul causes tremendous harm. The more we reduce conversation and increase our respect for the holiness of the place, the greater our genuine chizuk will be.”
Chacham Ben Shimon added that while it is important to explain the value of Torah to the broader public, the Torah world must first strengthen itself from within.
Later in the interview, he related a story from his experience on the Bais Din involving a man who had once been completely distant from Torah observance but gradually returned to Judaism because a rav chose to guide him patiently rather than rebuke or frighten him.
According to Chacham Ben Shimon, the story illustrates that Jews are brought closer through love, patience, and gradual spiritual growth—not through accusations or intimidation.
“There are many stories like that,” he said. “When you bring someone close with love and allow him to advance step by step, you can see how he changes.”
Concluding the interview, Chacham Ben Shimon was asked what message he wished to deliver to bnei yeshivah during this challenging period.
“They should not be afraid,” he said. “They should continue learning Torah. Fear itself creates more fear, but one who occupies himself with Torah merits siyata diShmaya. Even when there are things we do not understand in the calculations of Heaven, our responsibility is to continue learning and strengthening ourselves, and with Hashem’s help, He will assist all bnei Torah.”
{Matzav.com}
