A two-year-old Ukrainian boy named Illia was taken from his homeland by a senior Russian military officer who allegedly selected him for his “good looks.” The child was later abandoned after health problems came to light — and has not been seen since.
Illia is just one among thousands of Ukrainian minors who, according to Kyiv, were seized by Russia during the ongoing war. Ukraine’s first lady, Olena Zelenska, has made the fight to bring these children home a central cause.
Speaking exclusively to The NY Post from Kyiv on Thursday, Zelenska said that as discussions toward a potential peace agreement with Russia progress, ensuring the safe return of the missing children must be at the forefront.
Since the start of Russia’s full-scale invasion in 2022, Ukraine has faced immense challenges in tracking and recovering children taken during the chaos — many of them removed from schools, orphanages, and family homes in occupied areas.
Officials in Kyiv say that at least 19,500 children remain missing, though the true figure may be considerably higher. In 2023, Russian Children’s Ombudsman Maria Lvova-Belova claimed that 744,000 Ukrainian children had been relocated to Russia. Not long after, both she and President Vladimir Putin were indicted by the International Criminal Court on war crimes charges connected to these deportations.
“For all Ukrainians, this is one of the most heartbreaking consequences of this war,” Zelenska said. “We could not protect their rights when the Russians took them — without consent, without records, without any transparency.”
While Moscow has described these removals as “evacuations,” Ukrainian authorities say they were forced deportations. In some instances, entire boarding schools were emptied and the children bused away, never to be heard from again.
Ukraine’s social service agencies attempted to trace the missing, but the fact that large swaths of occupied territory remain under Russian control has left them with few answers.
“In the first weeks of the invasion, civilians couldn’t evacuate freely,” Zelenska said. “There were no green corridors. Anyone who tried to leave towards Ukrainian-controlled areas risked being shot, even families with children. The only direction open was towards Russia.”
Some of the missing were separated from their parents during so-called “filtration” — a network of checkpoints where fleeing civilians were interrogated, had their phones inspected, and even underwent body searches for pro-Ukrainian tattoos.
Human rights groups have documented numerous cases in which children were taken during these screenings and never returned.
Although about 1,500 children have been recovered so far, Ukrainian authorities describe the process as slow, dangerous, and emotionally draining.
International bodies, including the United Nations, have been helping compile lists of the missing. But identifying them is complicated by Russia’s practice of altering personal information, including names and birth details, in official records.
“A Ukrainian child named Mykyta may be renamed Nikita in Russian documents,” Zelenska said. “Dates of birth, places of origin, even names can be altered. That’s how these children disappear.”
With peace negotiations beginning to touch on territorial matters, Ukraine’s leadership insists that retrieving the abducted children must be non-negotiable.
“The longer these children stay there, the faster they lose their identity, their language, and their homeland,” Zelenska said. “Time is working against us, and against them.”
Kyiv continues to appeal to allied nations to pressure Moscow into allowing neutral observers to verify the children’s whereabouts and welfare, and to pave the way for their return.
For now, the futures of thousands of young Ukrainians remain in limbo, suspended between political maneuvering, diplomacy, and the enduring uncertainty of war.
”It’s very painful for us — for all Ukrainians and the Ukrainian state — because we were not able to ensure the rights of our children when they were violated by the Russians without their or their parents’ consent,” the first lady said.
The experiences of those taken vary. Some have reportedly been sent to Russian military training camps, even deployed to fight against Ukraine. Others have been used for labor or other forms of servitude.
Even those adopted into Russian households are not necessarily safe.
Zelenska recounted Illia’s ordeal: taken from occupied Kherson by a high-ranking Russian officer because of his “good looks.”
“There is a record of high-ranking Russian officials who come to select children for themselves, looking for the better-looking children as if it were a supermarket,” she said.
“Illia’s health issue was not obvious without a medical examination — which would have happened had he not been taken illegally — but when they found out, they took him to occupied Crimea and abandoned him. We don’t know what happened to him,” she continued.
”This story demonstrates how they treat children as if they were goods or things — they are not at all interested in children’s rights, and this is why Ukraine is fighting so hard for them.”
According to Zelenska, children in Russian custody are forbidden to speak Ukrainian, acknowledge their heritage, or communicate with relatives back home.
The psychological toll is severe. Many returnees have described being beaten for using their native language or expressing their cultural identity.
Some have taken their own lives in Russia, unable to bear the repression.
“The children who come back are subdued mentally — they’re broken,” she said. “Only after they return do they start coming back out of their shells.”
Once a child is adopted by a Russian family and their surname is changed, finding them becomes almost impossible. Ukraine has not yet managed to repatriate any child in this situation, Zelenska said.
Even locating the children does not guarantee their return.
“We have parents, grandparents and other relatives who are looking for the kids in Russia, but there is no answer to our requests for information,” she said.
“There are ways for international organizations [still working in Russia] to help, to be a mediator in these negotiations.
”If they could get information for us about these children, that would be a step forward.”
{Matzav.com}